Zodiac Signs That Disparage You On the Surface But Can’t Do Without You in Their Hearts

Fourth Place: Taurus

Taurus is actually very stubborn, much like a bull, persistently sticking to their opinions. Once they’ve made up their minds, they’ll continue like a bull charging at a wall. Unless they have a change of heart, trying to persuade them is impossible. Often, Taurus believes that if they think you’re wrong, then you are, and no amount of explanation will change that. Just admit your mistake, make a change, and things will be fine. However, many other signs tend to argue with Taurus. Let me tell you, Taurus really won’t listen during such moments. 

Don’t bother with arguments; it’s useless. It’s just like dealing with that stubborn bull; no amount of reasoning will work. Once you engage in an argument and, worse, refuse to admit your fault, Taurus can be extremely harsh in their words. They aim to make you admit your mistake and promise to change. 

If you persist (though, most of the time, it’s just their perception that you’re persisting), they will confront you to the end. Who can be more stubborn than a Taurus? Is the bull sign just for show? 

Also, even after resolving an issue, Taurus might bring it up later. Every time they bring it up, their tone will be extremely unpleasant, refusing to let you off easily. Additionally, Taurus has the skill to distort facts, especially in the context of relationships. 

This aspect is not easily noticeable for those unfamiliar with Taurus because, towards strangers and non-“insiders,” they are usually polite and courteous. It’s only with close ones that they display various tactics and a tendency to distort right and wrong. 

Regardless of whether it’s their fault or yours, they can turn the situation around and make it seem like your fault. It’s really… (sigh) quite frustrating. But honestly, no matter how serious the issue is for Taurus, after getting angry, they can be incredibly cute and waiting for you to comfort them. 

To determine if a Taurus cares about you, observe if they are waiting for you. 

Truly, if Taurus doesn’t like or care about someone, they’ll leave with an attitude like, “It’s none of my business; I’m out of here,” and walk away. But if they stay in place, sitting there sulking and refusing to leave while being angry with you, it means they haven’t thought about leaving you. 

Being angry with you while holding an umbrella over your head to prevent you from getting wet—this is Taurus. So, no matter how mean they may sound, they still love you, as long as they are waiting for you to apologize, speak, end the silent treatment, or comfort them. It’s just their personality.

Third Place: Gemini

Gemini is known for their outstanding eloquence and wit. They excel in words, effortlessly engaging in banter and presenting logical arguments. Convincing anyone is not a problem. 

To put it bluntly, they have the ability to speak human language and even ghost language. However, Gemini, in their apparent disdain, often resorts to a form of “counterattack.” They don’t really dislike you; sometimes, they just hope you can respond and counter them back. Do you understand what I mean? Gemini is occasionally creating amusement with this behavior. That’s why, as I mentioned earlier, Gemini often chooses two types of people to be with. 

One is those who can banter with them. Many air signs can achieve this—whether the banter makes sense logically doesn’t matter; what’s important is that you can jump, play, be noisy, laugh together, and engage in a lively exchange. 

Another type is similar to earth signs, with a clear logic structure like Gemini. You discuss things with them in a debatable manner, brainstorming ideas. However, earth signs may show a calm and composed demeanor while speaking slowly. 

They won’t get too excited. Gemini, on the other hand, might be bouncing and dancing around you in an enthusiastic manner. The reason Gemini and earth or air signs pair up the most fundamentally lies in the fact that there are more people within these two categories who can provide Gemini with the kind of fun they seek. 

Do you understand now? Because these two categories of signs have more people who can satisfy Gemini’s sense of amusement. So, Gemini interacts with them using this entertaining, and sometimes seemingly disdainful, method. Internally, they don’t really care; they just want interaction with you. They want to share sparks and communication with you. Everything they do is aimed at getting your attention, even if it’s through a somewhat childish, critical way. 

In Gemini’s eyes, it’s for your own good. If what they do annoys you now but helps you become better, they are satisfied. This is one of the relatively admirable qualities of Gemini. Many people who’ve left a relationship with Gemini have become better, more mature, and more worldly. 

That’s the reason. When it comes to determining whether Gemini cares about you, don’t focus on what they say; instead, pay attention to their actions. If they are often quietly solving problems for you, providing assistance, and creating a better living environment for you, then they truly care about you. 

When you’re facing difficulties, they always appear by your side, supporting and encouraging you, even though they may not express it verbally. They stand there, foolishly accompanying you. Let me tell you, this is their way of expressing love. Because for people Gemini doesn’t care about, they won’t even bother replying to messages or meeting up; they won’t be bothered. Let alone accompany you.

Second Place: Leo

Leo is known for their pride and confidence, fitting for royalty. Under normal circumstances, they won’t say much to people they’re not familiar with, let alone openly criticize them. However, towards those they care about, Leo wishes to be seen as someone special. Yet, they struggle to attract attention or don’t know how to captivate others’ interest. 

Therefore, their usual approach is to tease that person. Verbal banter and actions that annoy you are indeed quite common, especially when you’re not yet in a relationship. It’s as if they are a child who never grows up, casually wandering around you, pulling your hair, tugging at your clothes, or skipping around, laughing loudly. 

During their school days, many Leos displayed even more childish behavior, like hiding books of someone they liked, not returning borrowed items, or playing pranks with rulers and correction fluid. Essentially, they want to capture your attention. 

As they grow older, Leo tends to express themselves more through words, suddenly uttering arrogant or even impolite remarks. People who’ve been with Leo may have frequently experienced this. However, they genuinely mean these words, and after saying them, they happily look at you. It’s even more provoking. 

Girls do the same—saying things that might make you angry, then sneaking glances at you, smiling. All of this, and more, only happens when Leo likes someone. For other people, if you disturb Leo, they might look at you like you’re a fool. If you dare to confront Leo, be prepared to get slapped.

First Place: Virgo

Virgo undoubtedly deserves the top spot, representing the “critic with a righteous heart.” Harsh as it may sound, Virgo is not intentionally doing this or trying to be two-faced. Virgo, as we know, is an extreme perfectionist. In their eyes, everything, or rather, their things, must be perfect and flawless. 

That’s why Virgo cannot tolerate any imperfections. If you’re dirty, no matter how much I love you, I won’t want you. And this dirt must be something that occurred after Virgo and you got together. Virgo doesn’t particularly care about your past, as long as it didn’t involve them. However, after being together, don’t do things that disgust them. Perfectionists are naturally critical, and it’s normal for them to be picky. 

They may be picky about you, but it doesn’t mean they don’t care about you. I hope you understand this. In fact, precisely because they care about you, they are picky about you. As mentioned earlier, their things must be perfect and flawless, including you. That’s why Virgo can be quite sharp-tongued, almost a daily occurrence once you’ve been with them for a while. Long-term partners of Virgo are probably accustomed to this. 

However, those who can stay with Virgo for a long time know deep down that the more Virgo cares about you, the more unrelenting they are with their words. Virgo, in fact, is not as strong as you think inside. Sometimes, when they are annoying others, they feel upset themselves. 

However, they will never show it, never let you know, and never back down. Virgo truly cares about how they appear in front of those they care about. Even if it seems childish and picky, it’s an attempt to attract the attention of those they care about. Even if it’s a somewhat immature and critical method. But in Virgo’s eyes, they are doing it for your own good. If all the annoying things they do now make you better, they are content. 

This is one of Virgo’s relatively noble qualities. Many people who have left Virgo have become better, more mature, and more worldly than they were before, all because of this reason. When determining whether Virgo cares about you, don’t focus on what they say; rather, observe what they do. If they are silently solving problems for you, providing assistance, and creating a better living environment for you, they genuinely care about you. 

When you’re facing difficulties, they always appear by your side, supporting and encouraging you, even if they may not say it. They stand there, foolishly accompanying you. I’m telling you, this is their way of expressing love. Because for people Virgo doesn’t care about, they won’t even bother replying to messages or meeting up; they won’t be bothered. Let alone accompany you.

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