Aquarius Friendship: Different Approach and Secret to Winning Their Hearts

The way that Aquarius makes friends is indeed different from other zodiac signs. Firstly, their world doesn’t need too many people to participate in. They can create their own liveliness, and they need freedom and space to release themselves. They believe that being alone allows them to feel this world more clearly and to maintain their thinking more clearly. 

If someone doesn’t bring more advantages and instead destroys the harmony of Aquarius’s independent world, then they would rather go alone. Although friends have unique advantages, finding someone comfortable and compatible to be friends with is not easy. 

Aquarius doesn’t have many requirements in choosing friends, but they focus more on the chemistry and feeling of getting along. Some people are passed over by Aquarius at first glance, and the reason given is “the magnetic field doesn’t match at first sight.” Some people are loved by Aquarius at first sight, and the reason given is “I don’t know why I want to stick to them.” 

Some people try hard to get close to Aquarius but can only get perfunctory responses and linger outside their heart’s door. Some people just brush shoulders with Aquarius and already have his “VIP priority admission ticket” in their hearts. We can’t force fate, but we can only try to stay in Aquarius’s heart after we have the opportunity to become friends with them.

Aquarius has their own world, and when we interact with them, we must remember a principle: “to be intimate in emotions and to be clear in reality.” As a fixed star sign, Aquarius is still very loyal in relationships. Once they are committed, they belong to the type that only has one person from beginning to end. 

As long as we come into contact with Aquarius, we can easily see their loyalty: people who are not accepted by Aquarius can only see his distance, politeness, and sense of boundary that never exceeds. Even if you hold hands, you still feel that there is a layer of barrier that is thin but cannot be penetrated between you. 

People accepted by Aquarius have the opportunity to see their mysterious, whimsical, and slightly crazy side. You may not feel it when you usually get along with them, but as long as you witness Aquarius’s coldness to others, you can immediately discover that you are the lucky one that Aquarius has in his heart. 

If you are this lucky one, please take Aquarius’s state in a timely manner and respond to his loyalty. How to take Aquarius’s state in a timely manner is also a subject to be learned. Aquarius will not chat with you all the time. His chat frequency comes in bursts. Socializing is like recharging for him, and after a while, he needs to be alone to recharge himself. 

When Aquarius actively seeks you out, whether he is seeking advice, emotional guidance, or just wanting to chat and have some fun, we hope you can detect his needs promptly and respond accordingly. Because once Aquarius can come to you first when he encounters something, he definitely regards you as an important person.

So, when facing Aquarius’ unique way of intimacy, it is very important to respond.

Now let’s talk about what is “clear boundaries in reality”.

When making friends with Aquarius, they pay attention to the equality between the two parties. They have a strong sense of balance and never want to owe others or be owed by others.

Only mutual emotional investment can sustain a lasting relationship. If you always excessively encroach on me materially, excessively demand resources from me, and show no gratitude for my help, I will also keep my distance from you.

When I voluntarily do something for you, it is out of my feelings for you, but that does not mean that you can take my efforts for granted.

Don’t use the moral high ground of “since we are friends” to emotionally manipulate me. We are first and foremost two independent individuals, then friends.

Therefore, when making friends with Aquarius, you can rely on and trust them emotionally, but in reality, you still need to be sensible.

Don’t try to judge or constrain Aquarius’ behavior from a moral standpoint, they won’t fall for it.

To develop a relationship with Aquarius that is in line with their friendship principles and closer to their comfort zone, you need to grasp the sense of balance.