Embarking on the journey of pursuing a romantic connection with certain zodiac signs can feel like an intricate dance, each step revealing unique challenges and rewards. In this exploration, we delve into the captivating realms of Aquarius, Capricorn, Taurus, and Scorpio, discovering the art of winning their affections.
Aquarius Zodiac Sign
Let’s start by discussing the often-called “undateable” Capricorn and Aquarius in the world of astrology. I used to say that dating an Aquarius is like embracing loneliness. Those who have experienced a relationship with an Aquarius understand it well. Often, they are elusive when you need them, and they become remarkably persistent when they need you.
Aquarians are the type who says, “Don’t bother me, don’t restrict me, but when I need you, you must be there.” This is the typical nature of this zodiac sign. Therefore, many who have dated Aquarians find them quite selfish.
As for the term “selfish,” Aquarians don’t readily admit it because, in their minds, it’s a dog-eat-dog world. They understand human nature, living on Earth in almost an “alien” manner yet possessing a deep understanding of humanity, comparable to the twelfth house Pisces.
They believe in the independence of individuals, and that’s why, even if they don’t stay in constant contact, Aquarians can keep a relationship going. Aquarius is well-suited for a long-distance relationship, as they don’t easily change their minds.
The most significant issue arising from their understanding of human nature is that in their presence, Aquarians can immediately see through your intentions. Whether you’re being clever or have a hidden agenda, Aquarians can quietly observe. This results in anyone attempting to pursue an Aquarius feeling exposed, and Aquarians find it boring.
So, why is it challenging to pursue them? That’s the reason. I’ve always advised against pursuing Aquarians. Really, don’t. You won’t catch up. Aquarius is an adventurous sign. Simply put, you can attract them with your uniqueness and differences, but don’t pursue. If you chase, Aquarius wants to escape and feels annoyed.
Aquarius is like a kite, similar to what I mentioned about Gemini a few days ago. Unless they willingly hand the string to you, you can’t hold them. But who will Aquarius willingly give the string to? Someone with a unique personality that hits Aquarius’ spot.
In other words, your distinctiveness and uniqueness, if not unique for Aquarius, won’t matter. This is the fundamental reason why Aquarius is so hard to pursue because they need that unique point. Moreover, the crucial part is that every Aquarius is different. You don’t know where that specific point for this Aquarius is.
Let me give you a simple example. Suppose a person, whether male or female, tattoos a gun on their wrist. It might not hit the spot for this Aquarius. But if you tattoo the same gun on your leg, you might just hit this Aquarius’ point.
Understand my point? This uniqueness and personality are determined by Aquarius themselves. Aquarius has its own judgment system.
Capricorn Zodiac Sign
Many Capricorns may not admit it, but they genuinely care about appearance. Think about it carefully; is there an ugly or undesirable person among the Capricorns around you? It’s not possible. Moreover, good looks are just one aspect; the temperament must also be excellent.
Capricorns have high requirements for temperament. So, to attract a Capricorn, it’s genuinely challenging. You have to be outstanding, at least different from the rest. If you encounter a Capricorn who is already exceptionally excellent, the requirements are even higher.
Capricorns have another issue. As everyone knows, Capricorns generally have a relatively introverted personality. They don’t like socializing and prefer quiet places. Why is that? Apart from Capricorns disliking ineffective socializing, the fundamental reason is their strong psychological guard against unfamiliar environments and things, making it challenging to open up.
This leads to the difficulty of not only passing the appearance and temperament tests but also entering their hearts. Oh, it’s tricky!
Capricorns are naturally guarded against strangers and things, not allowing anyone to approach them casually. It can be said that if a Capricorn can spend time with you without objecting to your proximity, not minding your physical contact, or even letting you touch their things, you are undoubtedly special to them.
When pursuing a Capricorn, they don’t behave as woodenly as they appear, and they are not unaware of your feelings. It’s not like that. In the workplace and in the pursuit of their careers, you’ve seen their meticulousness and dedication. So, do you think they suddenly become careless when facing feelings? Impossible. Capricorns, when they care about you, when they are observing and evaluating you, can notice all these details.
Unless you’ve never caught their eye from the beginning, then you are like air, inconsequential, with no chance of getting close to them. Let alone getting along with Capricorns.
So, to pursue Capricorns, you must pass three checkpoints: appearance, temperament, and communication on a spiritual level. As mentioned earlier, appearance and temperament are essential. The subsequent spiritual communication involves their requirements for your character and whether you get along, which is also stringent. No Capricorn would want to marry someone who only sees the outer shell.
Unless they have become strong enough, needing only an accessory. In that case, you are the accessory. Otherwise, a normal Capricorn hopes to find an equal partner, or one that complements them, able to cooperate with them. Ideally, a companion with a supportive attribute.
Only with such a worthy opponent will Capricorn be willing to speak. Only if Capricorn is willing to talk to you, will there be verbal and spiritual communication.
Taurus Zodiac Sign
“I put in all my effort to nurture you, giving everything, but you respond with nothing.” Those who have pursued a Taurus must deeply resonate with this statement. One of the most significant problems with Taurus is that they often turn a blind eye to their pursuers, haha.
No matter how you please, give, and care, Taurus won’t take notice. Frustrating, isn’t it? Taurus is a very stubborn zodiac sign. Their stubbornness is not only evident in daily life but also in their approach to relationships. If they feel that you are not the right person, not someone who can move them, they won’t accept.
Better to be single than in a bad relationship; this is Taurus’ attitude toward love. I can abstain from love, but I must wait for that person. If it’s not that person, I’d rather not. Taurus is one of the zodiac signs least likely to fall in love with someone because they’re touched.
They always feel that your efforts are voluntary; they didn’t ask you to make those efforts. Don’t drag your efforts onto them, what you give has nothing to do with them, and you disturb their normal life.
For Taurus, if your pursuit disrupts their life, they won’t be moved by you, won’t like you, and might even develop a sense of disgust. This leads to pursuing Taurus being a dilemma. What if pursuing Taurus becomes annoying for them?
Not pursuing them? Taurus is an absolute non-initiator. I stop, and they won’t move forward. What should we do, stand still?
That’s why many Taurus ends up with water signs, like Pisces, Cancer, and Scorpio. Because water signs slowly infiltrate. Their pursuit is not as impatient as fire signs, scaring away Taurus. They are not as hot and cold as air signs, disappearing without a trace. They are not like earth signs, staying still when the enemy moves, being an eternal stone…
So, if you want to pursue Taurus, learn from water signs. Be gentle, silently moisturize, slowly infiltrate, slowly soak Taurus like mud… until they realize, you have deeply integrated into every aspect of their life, and they can’t do without you.
They have no chance to reject you, no chance to refuse you, and unconsciously, you have become one with them.
Understood, dear ones? These are secrets not to be shared.
Scorpio Zodiac Sign
Scorpio naturally possesses a noble and slightly dark aristocratic style, and all Scorpios bring a sense of oppression to those around them. Even if they smile widely, there’s a hint of arrogance in their demeanor.
Not everyone dares to approach this noble quality. Many people, although fond of Scorpios initially, would give up once they feel this pressure.
I used to say that standing ten meters away from Scorpio might freeze you.
So, those who can persist in pursuing Scorpio are quite formidable. They can withstand the pressure and tests from Scorpio. If you lack sufficient capabilities, it’s probably not going to work.
Scorpio has a keen sixth sense and insight, ranking among the top in the twelve zodiac signs. It is because of these two points that Scorpio eliminates the majority of pursuers. Whether it’s someone approaching them for a specific purpose, someone seeking care, or someone merely wanting a passionate encounter, Scorpio senses it even before you speak and eliminates you.
After elimination, among the remaining candidates, Scorpio will repeatedly test and select. Unless they genuinely favor someone, Scorpio will carefully choose.
Even if you think the time is too long and give up and leave, Scorpio will consider it just a part of their screening process.
You chose to leave, then leave, give up if you want. Scorpio is the best at understanding the phrase “there’s plenty of time in the future.” Their delayed satisfaction ability is also very strong.
For ordinary people, like Leo, Aries, eager to act immediately, thinking and doing things on the spot, anxious to move forward, otherwise, they’ll be anxious to death.
But not Scorpio. They can endure, remain inactive until they thoroughly observe and understand you. Scorpio, when pursuing someone, always observes silently, approaches slowly, and then gives an unexpected “fatal blow,” which will be accurate and must be obtained.
If there is no one hundred percent certainty, Scorpio can hide in the bushes, showing no sign of caring about you.
So, pursuing Scorpio is genuinely testing. But if you are fortunate enough to have Scorpio, if you persist until the end, after passing the test, congratulations, you will have the most sincere, loyal, always thinking of you, protecting you like protecting their own cub lover.
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