The way Gemini expresses themselves is always interesting.
Today, I want to talk about something intriguing, and it’s not just about how entertaining Gemini can be when they speak. It’s about the fact that when a Gemini chooses to express their inner thoughts, it’s because they are genuinely interested in something.
For Gemini, the points that stimulate their curiosity and desire for exploration are both the easiest to obtain and the most challenging to maintain. Therefore, when a Gemini chooses to voice their thoughts or express their inner attitudes, it’s because they have been directly attracted to a certain point.
However, there is an idiom that says, “Things don’t happen on their own; people make them happen.” As long as a Gemini is interested in something, they will undoubtedly praise the person involved in doing that thing. But Gemini may not have considered one thing: this behavior of “loving the house and its crow” can easily be misunderstood.
Others might think, “Is he so happy because he’s interested in me?”
Gemini, on the other hand, thinks, “I have to smile; if I act aloof, what if he stops playing with me?”
Others might think, “He talks so much; does he want to find a sense of presence in front of me?”
Gemini thinks, “If I like it, I’ll say it. If you love hearing us talk, we’ll chat.
If you don’t love listening, there will always be someone who does.”
The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart. As a result, Gemini is labeled with a series of names like “big talker,” “flaky,” or “empty promises.”
While others see them as “too much,” they feel unjustly accused. “I just want to have a little more fun, live a little more freely. What’s wrong with that?” Instead of facing these groundless negative judgments, it’s better to become a bit more “mature” and “rational.” Being forced to grow up seems to be an inevitable path.
Gemini would rather laugh or quietly shed tears alone in their room late at night than share their joys and sorrows with those around them. Slowly, pretending becomes real, and the real becomes pretend. In the eyes of others, Gemini is someone without worries, always smiling and never gloomy.
“My Gemini friend has such a great personality, never showing much emotion, always smiling, never feeling down.” If you truly believe that, it means Gemini doesn’t consider you a friend at all. Once Gemini starts expressing themselves differently than usual, there must be a problem that arose during the process of being with you.
In their own eyes, they clearly have emotions, both positive and negative, and they are vividly distinct. But when a particular emotion they express doesn’t receive the same response as usual, or when the point they long for a response to isn’t touched upon precisely, they start questioning the closeness of the relationship. After all, they have been misunderstood too many times and have heard too many unkind words.
They want to appear more emotionally intelligent, saying, “Since you don’t like what I want to say, I’ll say what you want to hear.” As a result, when Gemini feels emo, they end up being alone in their room. They long for someone to accompany them, but they also think, “Since everyone sees me as more optimistic, nobody will care about my emo anyway.”
“So many friends haven’t noticed that I’m not happy. Do I really have friends?”
When Gemini reevaluates their state and examines their interpersonal relationships, they become even more emo and less daring to express themselves freely.
Longing to be understood is also one of their biggest points of interest and the key to igniting their desire to express.
So, all Gemini individuals should seriously consider this question: How long has it been since you genuinely expressed yourself freely? In other words, how long has it been since you boldly expressed your attitude in front of others when it comes to things you’re interested in? In other words, when was the last time you made a true friend?
However, I must also make it clear to Gemini that if things have reached this point, you also have some responsibility. It’s not just about good friends; if you’re in a romantic relationship, do you truly trust the person beside you?
Are you willing to expose all your emotions to the so-called closest person to you? When you hang out with friends of the same gender, do you worry that they might say, “You don’t care about me as much as you say; friends are obviously more important to you”? When you share something with friends of the opposite sex, do you worry that they might say, “Gemini is always like this, even when in a relationship, they still chat about random things with others”?
There are just too many interesting things in the world. Gemini, think again. Do you love someone because they have interesting qualities, or do you think they are interesting because you love them? Isn’t it the same when making friends?
Gemini slowly becomes afraid to express themselves, starts to suppress themselves, and even gradually loses interest in certain known things. It’s not because they are genuinely no longer interested, but because they know they have a problem with staying interested for more than three minutes. However, when their interest diminishes while those around them remain enthusiastic, the situation becomes completely out of control for them.
Spilt water cannot be gathered again. So, for others, the simplest and most important thing is to give Gemini some tolerance and choose to spend each moment happily with them.
For Gemini, the most precious and rare thing is to be less anxious, choose to be more authentic, and be more at ease. Instead of baring their hearts to others, it’s better to learn how to keep their hearts to themselves again.
The person who truly loves you will cherish your heart, not trample on it. Having common goals and values requires both passion and compatibility. When interests and logic align, someone who understands you doesn’t require you to say too much. They will do their best to resonate with you in every shared experience. And when resonance doesn’t occur, they deeply understand the principle of “gentlemen agree while differing,” allowing you the time and space to enjoy on your own.
The only thing Gemini needs to do is return to their simplest self. Ignore those who show interest in you right away because of your looks, temperament, or style.
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