Embarking on a journey through the complexities of the zodiac, we unravel the distinctive traits that make certain signs more prone to unintentional betrayals.
Join us in deciphering the intricate behaviors of Sagittarius, Gemini/Libra, Pisces, and Cancer men, understanding the reasons behind their actions that may lead to disappointment.
Fourth Place: Sagittarius Men
The behavior of Sagittarius men that leads to disappointment is often manifested as disappearance. However, among the four zodiac signs discussed today, Sagittarius is relatively less harmful. This is because Sagittarius may, under certain circumstances, develop the idea of “just being together” after spending a long time with someone.
We know that Sagittarius men can be very responsible in certain situations, such as discussing marriage with you or truly considering you as a close person. They can give you everything unconditionally. So, even though he may not love you deeply, as I mentioned before, Sagittarius can ‘love’ many people, and he himself may not know whom he truly loves. The crucial point is that once he chooses to be with you, he will treat you with the respect a girlfriend should have, and he will provide what other women can’t get, as long as he can.
In this sense, it offsets a significant portion of the “disappointment.” Those who claim that Sagittarius men haven’t given them anything and often can’t be found are probably not considered girlfriends in their hearts. You might just be an option or a backup. This is not really a disappointment; it’s a situation where he doesn’t want to give you a chance. If you eagerly think that a Sagittarius likes you and throw yourself into his arms, it’s not entirely the fault of the Sagittarius.
However, even if a Sagittarius chooses a girl, someone he genuinely likes or loves, there is still a significant chance that he will disappoint her. Why? It’s because of the Sagittarius’ nature of loving freedom. When he realizes that he would rather lose you than lose his freedom, and he doesn’t want to be tied down, that’s when he leaves.
Why do many Sagittarius men have quick or no marriages? Have you ever thought about the reason? It’s because when Sagittarius men still find you very interesting and like you a lot, they can be impulsive and irrational about getting married. After all, Sagittarius is a fire sign.
However, once you’ve been together for a while, whether cohabiting or not, over time, if you bring up marriage, for Sagittarius, firstly, he doesn’t want to be bound by marriage and lose his freedom. Secondly, he may have experienced the feelings of love and even marriage with you, feeling that he has many memories with you. Even if he still likes you, at this point, he can let you go.
Unless he genuinely loves you to the point where he can’t live without you or if family pressure forces him to marry. As long as he has other options, you are destined to be disappointed.
Sagittarius men’s way of disappointing someone is to play the disappearing act, making it impossible to find them again.
Third Place: Gemini Men/Libra Men
These two signs are mentioned together because they are very similar in the aspect of disappointing others. Firstly, both signs are good at being ambiguous and playing games. When they want to play with you, they create a smokescreen in front of you, confusing you.
They are not the type to go all-in; their performances are somewhat ambiguous. This is also the reason why they don’t rank first. Going all-in in a performance could lead to more severe consequences.
Their games are okay when dealing with experienced individuals or those who have been through many challenges. However, when it comes to innocent and cute individuals, they are more than capable of playing them in circles.
Why do I say “play”? Because Gemini and Libra are really just here to have fun. They may not even put much effort into it. When they think of you, they might play with you for a while. When they don’t think of you, they won’t bother replying to your messages, ignoring you.
It’s precisely this hot-and-cold behavior that confuses and irritates innocent and cute individuals. So, if a naive girl comes crying to me about Gemini and Libra, I would advise her to let go. You really can’t outsmart them.
Because of this push-and-pull tactic, girls are pushed away and pulled closer each time. Each time they pull closer, the distance is a bit more than when they pushed away. So, girls gradually get closer in this unconscious manner, falling into the trap until they can’t escape.
And then, once they are in, they can’t get out. If Gemini or Libra leaves, they might act confused, wondering what they did wrong. They might say they were just bored and chatting with her, that they are friends hanging out, and she’s the one who won’t leave…
It’s really annoying.
Second Place: Pisces Men
Pisces men are open to receiving goodwill from others. They absolutely do not know how to refuse and will accept everything wholeheartedly. This kind of disappointment is the most hurtful.
In the concept of Pisces, whether male or female, any effort made by others, as long as it is received, has value. When Pisces likes someone, they give their all uncontrollably, reaching a point close to “losing their minds” in what is commonly known as the “love brain.”
Therefore, in the Pisces concept, when they are thinking of others, they believe others think the same way. Coupled with their lack of understanding of how to refuse, in general, whether a Pisces man likes you or not, if you sincerely offer your feelings, they will definitely not refuse, not even tactfully.
This passive form of disappointment in Pisces is inevitable. It’s involuntary, regrettable, and even somewhat resentful. If Pisces has options and is not forced into a corner, they absolutely do not want to disappoint anyone.
Therefore, Pisces’ disappointments are passive, reluctant, and filled with regret. If a Pisces likes you, the response will be enthusiastic. If there’s no response, they are treating you like air. It’s quite extreme.
Pisces is naturally extreme. Two fish swimming in opposite directions, pulling each other. However, many Pisces are in the gray area, and the actions of Pisces in the gray area are mostly meaningless.
In simple terms, if a Pisces has already set their mind on you, you are their world. If they don’t like you, you are a stranger. This is the extreme we talked about earlier. However, before establishing a relationship or meeting the one they really like, Pisces are in the gray area. At this point, all their actions, such as being nice to you, being ambiguous with you, showing concern, giving or accepting gifts, etc., are meaningless. These behaviors won’t decide whether they will eventually be with you or not.
So, those who end up disappointed are definitely the ones in the gray area. I’ve said it before: all entanglements between people are predetermined when they first meet. This saying is especially true for Pisces.
If they didn’t like you at first sight, you are the one who will be disappointed. Regardless of what you go through, Pisces will eventually escape, leave you, and disappoint you.
First Place: Cancer Men
Cancer men are ranked first because many girls’ deep affections are often disappointed by Cancer. This is because Cancer men are genuinely warm, creating a deep warmth that draws people in.
Moreover, Cancer men are not like some wind or fire signs that immediately create a whirlwind upon meeting you, making you impatient. They take their time, slowly penetrating.
As I mentioned before, the water signs are experts at slow penetration. The methods of the three water signs are a bit different. Cancer men are the ones who subtly provide you with things in every aspect of your life, but under normal circumstances, most people won’t easily notice.
You might just feel that he is really good, very caring, and different from other guys. So, you won’t be on guard, and you might even start to enjoy this treatment, this caring and comforting warmth from someone.
Do you know what “pulling silk and peeling cocoon” means?
When Cancer men leave you, and you’re getting over the pain, that state is called “pulling silk and peeling cocoon.”
The way they infiltrated every aspect of your life, the way you slowly began to enjoy this treatment, this caring warmth, you will have to peel away layer by layer to remove it from your life. Each layer you peel away hurts. It hurts sharply.
Normally, as long as you don’t have an aversion to the Cancer girl in front of you, and as long as Cancer genuinely cares about her, she will eventually be captivated.
When Cancer men seriously pursue someone, they rarely fail.
Of course, when choosing a girl, they have requirements, and they have their own standards. It’s not like he will like someone just because she’s considered conventionally beautiful by others.
Firstly, you have to be his type. You have to be what he likes. Secondly, you have to have a good personality. A good personality is crucial for Cancer men.
However, before encountering this girl, Cancer treats most girls very well, with goodwill. He doesn’t avoid it. He thinks taking care of girls is something a gentleman should do.
So, later, many girls are left watching Cancer walk away, still thinking about pulling him out to chase after him. But you really can’t pull it out. You can only watch Cancer leave.
This kind of pain, pulling silk and peeling cocoon, layer by layer shedding, is the reason why nowadays, when someone mentions that Cancer men are scumbags, you’ll see a group of girls jumping out nodding their heads in agreement.
That’s the reason.
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